Motherhood/Baby

Mindset/Mental Health, Motherhood/Baby

Moms, It’s Time To Get Comfortable With Making Mistakes


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Part of being a mom is messing up, and that’s okay. In fact, it’s way better than okay.

I’ve done so many things wrong.

The time I took him out of the car and looked down and saw that his seat wasn’t even buckled in. I thought, so irresponsible, how could I let that happen?

The time I had him in the baby carrier while cooking and hot oil splattered up so close to his face and I thought, what are you doing having him so close to the stove?

The time I sat him up on the floor because I wanted to snap a cute photo, but he fell backwards before I could catch him and he hit his head hard on the ground. I thought, that was so selfish and careless

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Motherhood/Baby, Things I'm loving

The Baby Items You Actually Need (and the ones you’ll want, too)


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Okay buckle up beeeaches, this is a long one! There’s tons of lists out there of baby must-haves or baby essentials for the first year. The problem is, they say things like “you need a swaddle” and when you go to get one, you realize there’s 20 different kinds to choose from and they all just look like a wad of fabric and you have no direction so you end up getting none or getting all 20. Or, maybe you’re in the wtf is a swaddle boat…either way!

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Mindset/Mental Health, Motherhood/Baby, Self Love/Body Image

Learn to love your messes


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Your friendly reminder that this is what’s going on much of my days over here…⁣

For such a tiny human he makes a lottt of messes.⁣

The thing is, we post what we choose to post. Do I choose to post cute, well-put-together-looking baby pictures (a lot)? Yes! And I’m good with that. Are most of our days also puke-covered, food-crusted, and diaper-changing-disaster-filled? Ohh yes.⁣

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Family/Relationships, Mindset/Mental Health, Motherhood/Baby, Self Love/Body Image

Motherhood Unfiltered: A raw look at the fourth trimester


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A couple weeks after giving birth a friend told me, “You’re making this look easy…this is false advertising!”⁣⁣
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And she’s right. Becoming a mom – especially the first days when everything is unknown and different, and you’re all exhausted and emotional – isn’t easy. We chose to spend the first 5 days alone, and it was a complete blur yet somehow I remember it vividly.⁣⁣
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It wasn’t just about cute newborn pics. It was raw as heck. Emotionally, physically, everything-lly.⁣⁣

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Family/Relationships, Motherhood/Baby

The hurts of Mother’s Day


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Mother’s Day Post 2 of 2

Here’s the thing…

Mother’s Day has never been a particularly hard day for me.

This year is pure happiness as the first with our son here. Last year I knew I was pregnant and was excited by that, looking forward to the day he would be here. Any year before that was spent celebrating my love for my own mother and all the other wonderful moms in my life.

I know this is not the case for so many people.

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Motherhood/Baby

OMG I love this child


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Mother’s Day Post 1 of 2…

I love this child so freaking much.

I don’t think I can pour it out into words how painfully much I love him, how thankful I am for him, how happy I am as a mother and as his mother. But briefly let me say…I love this little man. In his six months here with us he has taught me so much and has challenged me and encouraged me to grow in ways I never knew possible. The joy and love he has brought to our lives is a serious blessing.

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Mindset/Mental Health, Motherhood/Baby

Can you tap into your inner baby?


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For as long as they keep coming, I will never stop soaking up these moments. As a newborn it was all the time, and now only occasionally…. usually it’s just us, early mornings, when he falls back asleep nuzzled up on me.

My heart broke a little this morning thinking about the fact he will do this less and less as the months go on. Things are changing so fast. Every step forward, each milestone he hits, I look back and it’s a flash. Time is flying.

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Motherhood/Baby, Self Love/Body Image

How my health changed during my pregnancy


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Feeling nostalgic so throwback to this 7 month bump! Also thinking back on people constantly saying things like,

“It’s the only time you can eat whatever you want without feeling guilty”…
“It’s the best excuse to be bloated”…
“Enjoy the food freedom while it lasts”…

It pains me to think that we only give ourselves that leniency and grace when we feel we have a reason to, an excuse, a “condition” like pregnancy.

Who makes those rules anyway?

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